for oil i use mobile 1 full syn high mileage
for axles front and back i use regular dino gear oil.
for trans and trans case i us castrol atf+4. i think its used in the ps pump to iirc. havent changed that in a while. cant remember.
for radiator i use hoat from the dealer.
for the wife i use my ***** lol!!
my wife lies strawberry before ***** .