justhelplz, there is no reason to cry. Any good mechanical shop can help to get your cooling system checked & performing correctly.
It is good that you joined the forums as we have all had to learn much about the Jeep Liberty (KJ) and it is a bit particular regarding fluids and specifications.
Your owners manual can become your friend when it comes to operation and what types of coolant, gear lubes, transfer case, power steering requirements etc.
If you do not have an owners manual, you can get a free pdf from owners section, on Jeep site (2004 will work) link:
Jeep Owners | Download an Owners Manual 2004 - 2011 | Jeep
Most of the original water pumps had a plastic impeller, and when non Hoat coolant products were used, damage to the water pump's impeller was possible.
I would highly recommend since the system now contains the wrong coolant, that a flush of the system, be performed after any mechanical issues have been checked or repaired.
The Jeep dealer has the correct recirculating machine to perform the entire flush, and will ensure Hoat and distilled water is used for a proper mixture.
The dealer's machine will remove all of the wrong coolant which is what you want to do now.
For the system to operate correctly, it must be leak free, and the water pump working well, thermostat opening at the correct temp 195F with the coolant level correct, free from air pockets ( Air bleeding once full using top rad hose bleed screw)
The Hoat coolant type will last 5 years and I always let the Jeep dealer do the coolant flush. I think I paid around $150 for this job in Canada, so it may very well be cheaper in the USA.