update - okay so I haven't tested the relay yet (since I'm not really sure how to test it....)
but I figured some more info out.
1the low beams work as daytime running lights (ie when the car turns on).
2the marker lighst (signal lights) come on when I turn the lights the first turn on the switch.
3 when I then turn it to headlights on, the low beams turn off.
now I believe there is a difference in intensity between low beams and running lights - but it is the same lights correct?
thoughts - is this more to the relay issue or does this give you any new thoughts?
thanks
B.