Got the panel off. I found out if I grab it at the bottom with my fingertips and pull out and slightly up it comes off pretty easily.
I found the relay bank. I've had a hard time finding a good picture of what the KJ relay bank *should* look like, but from what I've been able to find, I suspect that my fog light relay might be missing? I bought this used, so who knows what was done to it before I bought it.
Take a look at the picture... should the fog light relay be where the open socket is? If so, I did try moving one of the other relays over there to see if the fog lights would come on, but they did not... so I moved it back to where it was. If the open socket isn't it, any idea which one is the fog light relay? Incidentally, these things are HARD to pull out! Make swapping around difficult.
I appreciate your help tracking this down.