My wifes 03 wouldnt start the other day. Turn the key and the only thing that happens is lights, radio, windows, etc all work. All I see on the dash is the oil can light and the CEL. Turn key to start and nothing. No clicks, nothing. We can hear and feel the starters relay clicking, but the starter wont turn. So my father and I pulled the starter off, tested it and watch the starter run perfectly...... I hear a lot about an actuator pin being the issue. If it is would the starters relay be clicking though? Or is there aome other system past the relay that could be holding it up. Any help would be helpful.