Let me expand on my previous short post a little. First, you have the 42RLE, so you're limited in ability to upgrade as well as having a very poorly performing setup.
Good news is that you can improve it enough to drive quite nicely.
The catch is that it is expensive if you're not going to keep the KJ. If you're going to keep it forever like I plan to, and nothing is broken right now, you can plan it out, save for it (dreaming about it while saving of course), and then buy the goodies and install them. (biggringift)
You will want to call and talk to people. Discuss the way you would prefer for it to perform, what size tires you'll be running, gear ratio, if you will be towing, etc. For the torque converter and shift kit call Wayne at APS Precision
http://www.apsprecision.com/. He gets very busy at times, but he's really worth waiting for.
My B&G flash was a custom aggressive flash to Marty at KRC Performance's specs and the first they ever did for the 3.7. Since it went through KRC, I don't have a contact at B&G. However, you should call them. They have both engine and transmission reprogramming for you and they are very good.
The nice thing is that you can do each of them 1 at a time, or all at once. If you bring these things together, you can really change the way your KJ drives.\\

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